Quote Originally Posted by Brian_ View Post
Your reason for queuing originates from personal gain, farming tomestones, rather than as a by product of an urge for a good shared experience / a fulfilling run for your party-mates.
Full disclosure the argument I thought you were going to make is not the one you made; however, the argument you decided to make is much more flimsy.

Your grouping 2 different decisions together rather than treating them separately
* One is the decision to join queue
* The other is deciding whether or not to leave after the duty starts.

To be clear, no one is judging you for your decision to join queue, or your reasons for wanting to queue.

You're getting critism for the decision of leaving the group.

You clearly prioritize your own tomestones and time over the will of the leaver. SURPRISE! Their motive for leaving is probably the same!

As for what's not selfish -- doing anything with the primary goal of accommodating others.
You assumptions are wrong about my motivations. I stay in the party to accommodate others. I critize you in an attempt to help you realize your actions are not considered socially acceptable.

The final issue with your logic is the justification of your selfishness. You try to justify your actions stating that other people are selfish. This not only is a huge assumption about the motivations of other players, but it does not make your behavior any less unwarranted.