What can I do to stop this?

[winsock]

... completely confused...

hahahahha. Having a criminal trial is about proving you committed an action that already isn't legally tolerated. Your response about "fair trials" has nothing to do with "live and let live".

Here is a clearer example for you. Let's say the behavior is adultery / you adopt the lifestyle of a cheater. It is a perfectly legal thing to do, but it isn't socially acceptable for the majority of ppl. Not saying that you can't do it, just saying it's a selfish thing to do and you shouldn't cry "live and let live" on the internet if ppl reject that behavior.

You are aware of your actions and are aware that the are not socially acceptable. You should not be surprised if there are social consequences. Those consequences might be disapproval and social rejection rather than a prison sentence, but they are still consequences you've earned yourself and have no right to complain about.