Serious question, and not trying to be rude.

You get like one piece a week? Is it really so bad to sit in Idylshire and shout : looking for -insert craft here- for meld pls?

Like I get that you want to do them yourselves but is it really as bad as people are making it out to be?

IDK about your servers but on leviathan if you ask someone for a meld of one item they will gladly do it.