I am social and friendly but many do not like my playstyle. I am a 100% healer, I do not dps. I am a healer, I am there to keep everyone alive. If I accomplish that then I did my job. If I wanted to DPS I would be on my Ninja or Bard. People expecting the healer to pick the slack for the DPS is not fair and unreasonable in my opinion. I state up front I am heals only, if they don't like it they can kick me and take thier chances with a replacement healer if they get one.