Frankly I am tired of people being coddled. PLD does have issues with AoE threat, and yeah, sometimes people behave inappropriately in instances, but everyone is so quick to /soothe rather than address the issues.

It is important to be considerate of other peoples\\' time when you are running an instance, especially in duty finder. If someone is putting in effort and not quite measuring up, that\\'s okay. The issue is that about half of those people become angry when you try to give them some constructive critcism, or politely ask them to perform a basic function of their role.

This is not an elitist attitude, it is a courteous one. I am coming ready to play. I will do my best to make the run as fast and as painless as possible. I expect the same from everyone else. Yes people can act inappropriately, but 9 times out of 10 what I see are people who don\\'t even read the tooltips on their skills and expect a trophy for merely showing up.