Protect? Really important? Low level content

[Leiloni]

Eh, I really don't see the value in (or like the idea of) ceding everything to other people just because they'll raise a fuss over it. They're the ones making waves and disrupting the group, ought we all not simply be telling them that they're the unreasonable one?

It is interesting to me though. In many areas of life it seems to be this way...someone can raise a fuss over something and expect you to change or do something according to their will, but if you refuse, people make it seem like you're the unreasonable one.



Heh, I had a nice fellow in Halatali last night inform me that "Cleric Stance is only for soloing."

Just because someone else is being difficult, that doesn't give you the ok to be the same way. In this case if you talk back to them, you're just making the waves bigger. It's often just easier to let it go. So if it all goes away with one cast of one skill, then the more mature thing to do would be to just cast the skill and get on with it. Learn to pick your battles. Sometimes you don't need to be right and it's just better to relax and make everyone happy. Only children feel like they have to "win" everything.

Threads like this make me feel like none of you have jobs in the real world. Do you talk to your coworkers at the office like that? Stamping your feet and telling them their unreasonable last minute request is not how things are done around here and to just deal with it? No, you suck it up, do the work to make everyone happy, and get on with your day without getting upset.

And honestly, if you handle it well and with a smile, they'll thank you and love you for it. MMORPG players are the same way. Grow up and just be nice.