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    Velthice's Avatar
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    Ozzie Nyandias
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    Sargatanas
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    Quote Originally Posted by odie View Post
    Start your own party finder. "Bismark Extreme - Learning Party" go get experience
    Echoing this as others have. This is the solution to your problem. You can't force people to play with you who don't want to play with you, they're real life human beings with free will.
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    Kytheren Kenni
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    Seraph
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    Red Mage Lv 97
    Quote Originally Posted by Velthice View Post
    Echoing this as others have. This is the solution to your problem. You can't force people to play with you who don't want to play with you, they're real life human beings with free will.
    This argument has validity, but at the same time this sort of me me me attitude seems to becoming less rare and it's worrisome. As a gaming society, what direction do we want to take ourselves?
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    Blaise Destin
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    Quote Originally Posted by Issac View Post
    This argument has validity, but at the same time this sort of me me me attitude seems to becoming less rare and it's worrisome. As a gaming society, what direction do we want to take ourselves?
    Become the example of what you want to see in others.

    Its all you can do, complaining about it won't change who people are. All you can do is be a positive influence yourself, and maybe you'll get lucky and spread the good will.
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    Grit Grimly
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    Balmung
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    Paladin Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by BlaiseArath View Post
    Become the example of what you want to see in others.

    Its all you can do, complaining about it won't change who people are. All you can do is be a positive influence yourself, and maybe you'll get lucky and spread the good will.
    I get stacks when I complain though.
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    Ashkendor Zahirr
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    Quote Originally Posted by Issac View Post
    This argument has validity, but at the same time this sort of me me me attitude seems to becoming less rare and it's worrisome. As a gaming society, what direction do we want to take ourselves?
    In my opinion, the inexperienced person that joins the farm party looking for a carry is displaying more of a "me me me" attitude than the other seven players that are on the same page. If someone wants a clear, they can either work for it or pay for it. It doesn't take much effort to put a party into PF.

    Quote Originally Posted by Nadirah View Post
    Only problem I have with starting a group on PF is that I have absolutely 0 experience and no one wants to join a run led by someone with no experience.

    Learning parties imply a teacher. When party leader doesn't know the fight....
    No. It implies "I want to learn this fight. Who else wants to learn it?"
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    Last edited by Ashkendor; 07-05-2015 at 03:38 PM.

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