As far as I see it, as much as an MMO is about joining skills and working together, they've designed this game for an individual to be branched out among all aspects. Just as those who keep to DoL/H are now seeing themselves gated, DoW/M characters have been walled off from certain things that required crafting. Now we were always able to sidestep with the aid of those who just crafted through market board or them being able to slot materia for us, just as we were always able to give them materials you'd only ever find in DGs, Raids, or Trials. That said, this trend will most likely continue... maybe.
You can't log in to their game and tell they can take their story and shove it. Well... I mean you can, but I doubt you'll get any quarter by doing so... anyway, story is important to them and they want it played out by everyone. In any case, until you get up there in DoW/M, you may have to just depend on those with their DoW/M as we've had to depend purely on you crafters in the past.