Quote Originally Posted by nuyu11 View Post
Be the first doesn't mean you're the best. What we discuss here is about veterans attitude, if I was them I don't mind at all to carry newbies there to show how the mechanic works.
What you (and many others who are mad at 'elitists') conveniently ignore is, that A LOT of veterans are sick of the attitude they are often presented with when trying to help a newbie. It looks like the vast majority of new people you meet in duty finder do not want to improve at all and think it's okay to get carried because it's their 14 bucks a month and because they pay that, they deserve every clear handed to them... by other people.

It's completely understandable that not everyone wants to deal with this awful attitude. And then those same people go on the Lodestone or Reddit and rage about 'elitists' and how evil they are for not carrying them.

I can safely say that the nicest people I know ingame are what the Lodestone would call 'elitists'.