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  1. #371
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    Khaela Alteri
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    Quote Originally Posted by Seiryuukishi View Post
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    I'm going to explain a few things:

    Firstly, my problem with your post, and why I put "neutral" in half-quotes is because you weren't neutral. See, when you take two people where one person was obviously in the wrong and the other dealt with it well but not perfectly, and ascribe equal blame to both that's not neutral. That's siding with the guilty party. You've been backpeddling on the equal blame bit since, but that's how you first came off.

    Which brings me to a second point: For someone who espouses being good at interpersonal communication, you're kind of bad at it.

    From what I can tell, what you want to do is explain how to deal with these kinds of issues in the future. Well, here's how you do that:

    "Yeah, that DPS was a dick, and I understand not wanting to respond to him right away, or wanting to clear your head first. You might have an easier time with them in the future if you don't wait until after the first pull to talk, though."

    You don't come into a thread where someone is being dog piled, go "It's just as much your fault as his!" and then explain what to do. That's bullshit. No one sensible is going to listen, and anyone with a modicum of social responsibility is going to know that's not how you handle these situations. Most people with an understanding of social interaction are going to call you out for hiding behind seeming neutral while really just wanting to join the dog pile, because, in all honesty, that's what it looked like and I'm still not convinced that wasn't your intent.

    The reason I chose you, specifically, to respond to, is because it read as hypocrisy to me. Attempting to come off as neutral and fair minded while just laying down more shit on the person being dog piled on by an entire thread.

    So, I guess my advice to you is to not attempt to give other people advice on how to properly handle interpersonal conflict until you're better at it yourself.
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  2. #372
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    LTEvil's Avatar
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    Sin Takeda
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    Quote Originally Posted by Krylo View Post
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    I was trying to not respond but you called that one out so well. Nicely done. Take my likesss.

    Anyone have popcorn?
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  3. #373
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    Quote Originally Posted by Krylo View Post
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    I wish I had a way with words like you, thank you again . If I see you in world, I'm going to give you a hug.

    Mission successful: hug given ;D
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    Last edited by Adire; 05-07-2015 at 03:38 PM.

  4. #374
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    Seiryuukishi's Avatar
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    Helios Etoilefilante
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    Quote Originally Posted by Krylo View Post
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    Did everything I could to not laugh at how incredibly stupid you are. I've been more than nice about this and now I'll be a "dick".

    Since you seem to know so much by all means, God, make the issue go away by itself. Or better yet just make ALL of the consummate idiots stop breathing. But that's the rub. Genocide is frowned upon so you're shit out of luck. Tell me, I'm dying to know, is how does one such as you know what hypocrisy is considering you think you're perfect. You've already tripped up on your own idiocy. So your advice is nulled because you yourself didn't follow it. When you call names you receive in like kind eventually. As far as my intentions go they were, WERE, noble until you f**ked it up with your johnny come lately attitude.

    Heed me well, because I won't repeat myself. Back off of me. I'm done with your mess.
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    Again I saw that under the sun the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, nor bread to the wise, nor riches to the intelligent, nor favor to those with knowledge, but time and chance happen to them all.

  5. #375
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    Quote Originally Posted by Seiryuukishi View Post
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    All I can say is....

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  6. #376
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    Quote Originally Posted by Seiryuukishi View Post
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    OP propably expected friendly tap on back in this thread and you kinda slapped him right into face and for that I love you sir.
    Well I hope you won't get temp ban from forums for this, someone most probably reported you.
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  7. #377
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    Quote Originally Posted by StrejdaTom View Post
    OP propably expected friendly tap on back in this thread and you kinda slapped him right into face and for that I love you sir.
    Well I hope you won't get temp ban from forums for this, someone most probably reported you.
    That post wasn't even directed at the OP....lol

    Will I get fussed at for mentioning that there's a lack of reading going on here again?
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  8. #378
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    Quote Originally Posted by Adire View Post
    That post wasn't even directed at the OP....lol

    Will I get fussed at for mentioning that there's a lack of reading going on here again?
    In that message I meant all his previous posts, not the reaction to Krylo, I was just showing him support, but ok.
    When someone doesn't agree with you, it is just because the person didn't read your post. Sure.

    EDIT: Lets say I just don't like entitled tanks who think they run the dungeon. Without healer and dpses you are still nothing. Yeah, the dps wasn't polite, but you just dropped to his level anyways.
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    Last edited by StrejdaTom; 05-07-2015 at 05:01 PM.

  9. #379
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    Should have quoted a post where he was referring to me then.

    Quote Originally Posted by StrejdaTom View Post
    When someone doesn't agree with you, it is just because the person didn't read your post. Sure.
    There's that inaccurate logic again. Want me to quote some posts for you that didn't agree with me, but I didn't accuse them of not reading my post? Want me to quote some posts that criticize me for things I covered already in previous posts?

    I'm only accusing people of not reading who post things that show they haven't read :P. I haven't been repeating myself for fun.
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    Last edited by Adire; 05-07-2015 at 05:12 PM.

  10. #380
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    Kokotsu Kotsu
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    Masamune
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    Quote Originally Posted by Seiryuukishi View Post
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    Bro it's not worth to get banned from this silly argument because of someone whine about their bad experience during some run in dungeons.
    Oh man, I hope this forum have more productivity and informative topic rather than a some rant.

    I think someone is already made a report. You just fall into some idiocy trap and someone is already smile because of it.
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    Last edited by nuyu11; 05-07-2015 at 05:12 PM.

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