Aww that's really a shame. I know firsthand the ardors of trying to enlist loved ones to play. Us veteran players of FFXI are used to questionable billing and we rolled our eyes and put in the request for refund, which we hoped they would get around to processing in a year or so. You didn't dare try to charge it back or you'd get BANT for suspicious activity. I was really hoping the migration to the Square Enix account system was going to mitigate all those headaches. :/