Quote Originally Posted by Gralna View Post
Don't, if you don't want to speed run, as a tank you don't have to. You are the one that sets the pace of the duty, if rest of party doesn't like it, they can leave. If anyone tries to pull extra packs into your pull, let them tank it. This is a game, play it the way YOU enjoy it, and don't let others dictate how you play.
well the party can also choose to kick you for being uncooperative

maybe it is just an anecdote but any problem i have ever had in a dungeon that was so bad that i wanted to criticize another player was of my own design. but ffxiv is an mmo, running dungeons is not hard. don't be afraid of failure to try something different. if there is something you know you cannot do but the group does wants to do it anyway, just be humble and say you are not good enough at your job to do what they are asking - that things will go better if they take them a little bit slower.

work with, not against each other