Most people need to take a break from a MMO every now and again. Modern gamers who rush through content, don't read text, and just focus on progression progression progression end up playing too much due to lack of self-control. Then they wind up hating the game and seeing more faults than the game truly has. So do yourself a favor, take a break, and come back when you're ready. The game will still be here for you.

By the way, XIV has far more things to do than "gear up". You just might need to play the game with a different mindset to realize that.

Just my opinion, best of luck with whatever you decide to do.