I believe your attitude plays a large party in the group mentality... can't say I'm a saint but I try but to do anything ad nauseam for the simple fact that this is a perpetual game and I have no need to hurry on anything.

As I get approach end game I've yet to meet these so called d-bags. I'm sure they're around, but I've never met them... I met a terrible healer once but that was about it.

I like to tell jokes while I'm tanking anyway. I play to have fun, and I personally feel it's good to keep humor in all situations so people can just enjoy themselves instead of getting fixated on stats and having the best gear. when it's time to fight a boss, yeah i'm serious, but I'll still throw rallying words to keep people engaged.

I'd rather learn, become fully confident in the content and teach others, than put on my princess tiara and engage in pointless drama.