Its sad that people are getting the wrong idea about his thread. If you actually read my initial post I've not once mentioned a guy, his wife, some other guys AFK leeching. No one is pointing fingers, only people who have gotten offended by the topic have point at themselves to be victims of "apparently" harassment.
Thank you people who have actually contributed to the thread and posted your opinions and solutions.
This was a discussion that turned into an argument because some people are easily offended.
Like Honz said I'm going to be the bigger man and step away from this flame war, insult me all you want but that isn't going to stop me getting my voice through.