Quote Originally Posted by Cailae View Post
What you are implying here is that you want to join parties, have them let you waste their time by learning a new strategy, and then you don't even have the courtesy to at least take the initiative yourself? Do you not see how ridiculously selfish that is?
No, I wasn't, you're interpreting too much into it.

t's one thing to look for like-minded people yourself to do content in ways you want to. Find other people that want to make fun memories or wiping! Join a linkshell that does stuff like that. But to join a PUG group shouting for a win on something, then demand they let you use a job not suited for their strategy then deride them for wanting the win, and kicking you? that is just, wow.
I'm not saying they have to use my strategy, all I'm saying is, there is more than one strategy for a certain encounter but people are usually not willing to deviate from the one deemed standard. This not only applies to PUGs but also many LS.

And then comes the whole "selfish" thing. It's easy to say, someone is being selfish, but ultimately, if you don't enjoy playing the game, why are you playing (and paying)? And if you are enjoying the game, why is me wanting to enjoy it being selfish?