Marriage feedback [inofficial Poll]

[Loggos]

Sexual urges aren't may not be a choice, but sexual activity certainly is.

If not, society would have no standing by which to punish rapists, peeping toms, child molesters, etc.

But the problem of this is that those are one-sided activities that harm a person not involved in those likings of activity. Those things are not mutual, therefore they are forced and do a whole lot of harm.
In our society we generally punish something when we consider it harmful, not when it is against nature by default.
Two people loving each other and have sexual activity with mutual agreement are not harming others with their choice of life (unless they show what is classified as indecent behaviour by law).

Anything from dying one's hair, being tattooed or pierced up to gender change is also against nature but it is personal and causes no direct harm to another person.