Mainly I can read from your words: "I don't want to spend time and effort on level a craft/gathering to have a proper selfeconomy, so I complain about those people who did what I didn't want to do and yell that relic system is bad."
how does not wanting to put a huge time sink into monotonous crafting or gathering jobs equate to entitlement?
both hamlet and the enchanting part both favor only select people, and hardly should be considered part of obtaining a weapon.

getting an endgame weapon like his method was tried and true, collect X amount of NM drops, kill X amount of NM, kill x amount of monster... it was just as lousy a time sink, but at least you were actively doing something if you made an effort. this is just luck and monotony, face it, DOL/DOH jobs suck.