OP seems to be wanting more content. That's understandable.

Right now the ratrace to the end exists because a lot of contents will become unavailable this winter. There's little content to do, so most people just want to do the content they haven't finished, like CC or AV or Garuda. This creates "newbie discrimination" because newbies can't do that content and other players just won't want to play content that they're already finished with.

Whether or not it creates "fascistic behavior" is another thing. Some folks want to run a tight ship even if PUG. Others are more flexible. But some folks are never flexible and you'll just have to deal with that, content or no content. However, that doesn't make the people that (example) reject a WHM for not having any AF fascistic. You're way off base with your "slacker vs. lifehaver" comment. It just opens up that Hardcore vs. Casual thread topic again. Not having enough time is part of the reason that I won't accept everyone who sends me a /tell into a party. Other days I can I have time with new folks and help them do content/play their job. Some days I have precious little time and won't be bothered. Show some respect for others and their time, please.