Quote Originally Posted by Kohashi View Post
It's very hard to tell why things went awry but I have also met a lot of healers stressing out. It's true that most start out thinking that everyone has to be at 100% at all times. I myself had that for a very long time.

But yeah, showing common courtesy to other players is the bare minimum people can do. It doesn't matter if the class is easy or hard, they are new or a vet. Just be a decent human being, and things will improve.
It's wild that common courtesy is a hot take for some. My friend had the worst anxiety as a healer and I mean bad, but because I then decided to tank for them and go at their pace, they learned the job and now play healer without any issue.

When I play tank, I will always be thinking of the healer. Because ultimately, how much they have to heal depends on my use of cooldowns and mitigation. If I pop everything on one pull, I can't expect to pull w2w with no mitigation the next round & expect to be okay. Warrior doesn't count lmao. It's all good and well to put majority "blame" on heals and tanks, but if your DPS are not pushing buttons, the mobs don't die and we eventually run out of cooldowns. Especially in lower level dungeons.