Quote Originally Posted by AmiableApkallu View Post
I'm quite serious about not enjoying packing and carrying heavy boxes every which way just because someone tells me to do so, but if a friend asks for a bit of help moving into a new place, in the words of the great Gimli, "They have my effort."

That's how friendships and other relationships work. You do a thing you don't enjoy because your friend understands you don't enjoy it, appreciates that you're going to do it anyway, and will endeavor to do the similarly for you in the future.
Taking your analogy a step further, if you were boycotting (because this is really a boycott and nothing like an actual strike) carrying heavy boxes around and had made that clear, then one would hope if they are truly friends they would support your decision and not ask you to carry heavy boxes for them. Otherwise are you really committed to boycotting carrying heavy boxes around if you do it whenever the right person asks?

That's what healers who aren't leaving the role entirely are doing to their point. They are undermining it with exceptions. It's not really hard to see why so many aren't taking this seriously if the participants themselves aren't showing full commitment.