It's just toxic players and bad actors. An easy fix would be to make FATE mobs immune to insta kill spells, Missle, etc. Just make them miss. Blue Mage can still do it to nornal mobs and dungeons, etc. That way, it's not emboldening players to go out and nuke FATEs.

Or, at the very least, find a way to scale them better. Nobody would be screaming on Reddit or the forums if Blue Mages were slightly faster, etc. There's a big difference between slighly faster and instant.

My condolences to anyone who is still dealing with this. I got mine done week 2, but I would suggest Dynamis or OCE. OCE realms were pretty good for prime time since they were just waking up.