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[Renathras]

I'm simply reading your post. That's basically it. There is no point in going on with this.

By your own logic you can't assume i'm toxic. You don't know the meaning of my texts, you didn't ask me.

Considering your posts of late have been following and replying to me in different threads to tell me how toxic I am...I think that's a comfortable enough inference.

Also, you didn't have to remove your sig. I wasn't making fun of it. I agree the points you had in it are good points. I was just saying you should hold to them yourself.

I agree with you on one thing:

There's no point in going on with this. Which is why I've tried to respectfully decline your continued baiting. I'm not very good at that, mind you, but I'm trying to get better. Note my last post, I even stuck it in HB since I'd rather engage with the topic. Look at what I didn't put in HB. That's what I'd rather talk about. Look at what you seem to want to talk about.

While I want to talk about the topic of the healer situation overall, you want to talk about me.

EDIT:

That is to say, if you're following someone around to reply to them calling them out in every post, that is kinda toxic. Especially when they're actually trying to engage with the topics in the given threads and your harassment of them is derailing them.

Anyway, in the spirit of that:

The sooner we take this anger we have for others and direct it towards the real culprits - the developers - nothing will ever change. We’ll just keep arguing in circles…like we did in Shadowbringers, and Stormblood, and Heavensward…long before Renathras even appeared on the forums…

I don't think anger is the solution. Anger just gets dismissed at this point.

I think it's more coming together with people, working on solutions most everyone agrees on, that gives everyone something they want - that is, actual compromises - and continuing to express the problems we perceive without hyperbole or emotion. Just continue to lay out the issues, and why they're issues, and suggestions for what could fix them that gives something to everyone and doesn't leave anyone out in the cold.

Maybe it's just naivete on my part, but I think that's the better way to do it. At the very least, would lead to a lot less animosity between players at each other.