I know y'all don't wanna hear this...

[Myrany]

Was the tank using their mitigation, was yours and the their gear level appropriate, were the DPS pressing buttons

Not saying you are wrong but in the incredibly rare situation someone will actively flame you in 14 there are many avenues to check before deciding that everything must be bad/your fault and giving up healing entirely

But I can totally understood being put off healers if that is your like 3rd experience, but I would check such things in the future

I don't honestly know about the mits. Never played a tank really and don't know what all the spells look like. My gear was on level a mix of HQ and NQ crafted. Sadly I was so focusing on trying to keep him alive I really wasnt Paying attention to what the DPS were doing.

I have strongly suspected it was too many bees in the pull but that is having run it as DPS many times since then and watching where struggles happen.

Wipe on that pull. Followed by one nasty dressing down and ugly grumbling for the rest of the run. Problem is my confidence in my ability to keep up is just gone.


Edit: @ChrysOCE yes it was the 35 normal. Good to know I wasn't the only one to struggle. TY for the kind words of wisdom.