I know y'all don't wanna hear this...

[Myrany]

But what are we talking about here? Someone doing a 30-below dungeon? 50? 70? 90??

From 50, my expectation is w2w regardless. And that only increases the higher the level. Tanks have the mits, healers have the oGCDs, DPS have the abilities. If someone is not comfortable, they could always communicate to the party?

My experience was in Qarn and the tank pulled something like 3 packs and I just couldn't keep him alive. Got chewed out. Finished the dungeon and never healed again. I was on a on lvl conjurer/white mage

Edit: Was I good healer? Obviously not. I was however trying to learn. I don't play games to take the kind of abuse that was put on me that day.