Quote Originally Posted by Crustyman View Post
Anyways, during a particularly tough dungeon in the MMO we were playing I had a complete meltdown because I wasn't preforming well enough on this one encounter, and thought they wouldn't wanna do anything with me after that, so I left the discord. After I got some sense back into my body, I tried to apologize but the leader of the third FC said that I simply wasn't meant for the discord due to me leaving and joining the discord as well as the xiv fc multiple times.
So you are disliked because you have meltdowns over videogame perfomance which probably no one else cares about, and accuse your friends of being flakey while leaving, joining, leaving, joining their group at your whim. Do we need to read anything before or after these lines?

As for you not being able to connect with your friends if you are not doing rollos or "activities", I don't know. I am part of a group of players, not a FC but a linkshell, and I consider most of them very good friends. I might see their avatars in game maybe once every two weeks. Why do you need to run mindless daily roulettes to feel like you've made a friend? Just talk to them.

You might have the impression a "raider"'s life is about either gearing up or raiding every single minute they are in game, but that is absurd, unless they really only login for raid hours, which can happen, honestly I know a lot of people who are not that interested in the social aspect of the game and you have no right to fault them that. But if they are online and you can'ìt even manage to get some banter going on during their downtime, and in light of the issue I quoted, well then I'm afraid raiding is not the cause of your woes.