Why do people avoid getting better at the game?

[DixieBellOCE]

Whenever I see people giving advice it's usually given incredibly passively, almost as if it's just a tiny, tiny suggestion. They do it in a manner that suggests that they are scared. They know they're doing it at their own risk and they don't want to face any backlash from trying to help someone improve. No one wants to walk on eggshells just to deliver a solid explanation on what the other player is doing wrong and how to improve, only to potentially get reported, or get told rudely that by the other player that they don't care.

I have never seen anyone give aggressive advice, mostly because most people that get aggressive just don't bother. They just insult, they're not constructive.

The amount of times i have given advice in the politest manner possible it just gets dismissed because the people receiving the advice don't actually care.

'Could you please stack together behind the boss so xxxx mechanic always faces one direction'
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One player will always go out of their way to mess it up out of spite because you offered advice, that is the casual toxic mentality when asked to do something correctly.