Like I said, you have the misconception that the issue you think you found even is an issue that needs to be solved. Not everything is a nail in need of a hammer.
Again, like I said, you're assuming that the people on the 'other side' are 'regular complainers' rather than players who are unhappy. You're not banned from mentioning them, but you're showing that you don't understand them when you use terminology like this. Why would someone want to follow your lead if you clearly don't understand them?
And I'm pointing out that the foundation of the self-reflection you did was flawed. Your OP's points are based on misconceptions.
Personally I'd prefer that there wouldn't be any official 'sides' to discussions. Do I agree with some people more than others? Sure, I am more likely to agree with Aveyond than I am with Atelier or Midare. The only actual division I have with other people here is with people who have already given me a reason to dislike them. For example:
- If you're constantly trying to shut down discussions I'm interested in like Striker does, I won't like you.
- If you prove yourself to be unstable like Midare did, I won't like you.
- If you give me an angry rant on a daily basis like VelKallor does, I won't like you.
- If you are consistently intentionally disingenuous like the entirety of the lore forum is, I won't like you.
- If you try to dogpile someone I am on good terms with like everyone under the sun does with Aveyond, I won't like you.
People keep giving me reasons to not like them, and then wonder why I could possibly not like them. Then they wonder why I'm on 'the other side'. I'd be willing to let bygones be bygones with certain people if they stopped giving me reasons to not want to. If people want to have a genuine discussion with me, I'm usually up for it as long as you don't give me a reason to not want to have said discussion. That doesn't mean I guarantee that I will agree with you, but if that's what someone expects from me, that's just unreasonable.
Maybe I should take some pages out of Aveyond's book one of these days and just pretend like certain people don't exist.