When I went through the story, I had picked blm as my starting class. And I'll be the first to admit that I was a really bad blm. And it wasn't until the Ivalice raids that I was finally told I was bad. My party wiped to Hashmal. And one of the healers said, "maybe if the blm stopped dying to every single thing, I could focus on the boss". That's not constructive. It made me feel extremely embarassed. And I didn't ever want to feel that way again. So I started looking up guides and practicing more.

It's not up to everyone else to cater to your feelings. You have to understand that their enjoyment is just as important as your own.

Being called out sucks. I get it. But if you don't want to be called out, don't give anyone a reason to.