Is there too much soy in this game's community

[Renalt]

Here is a million dollar question, cause I do not understand this. What is up with people nowadays getting bent out of shape over things they have zero control over. Why not take personal accountable for ones own self and learn to control how they personally deal with outside factors instead of trying to get the outside factor to bend to them. Someone makes fun of you, calls you bad, tells you to self delete w/e who freaking cares they are random strangers in a video game world, they are no better then NPC's in the grand scheme of things. Sure it hurts, but why give them the satisfaction.

I say this as someone got bullied often, and even went as far as planning the unthinkable due to it. Life is far too short to let assholes get under your skin.

That's because being accountable for ones on actions makes one an adult. We can't have that here apparently!

PS. I'm sorry things were rough and I hope things are going better now.

[Nyxs]

That's because being accountable for ones on actions makes one an adult. We can't have that here.

I have read threads,twitter posts,reddit posts etc where even if a person is doing horribly (like actual horrible not they died once but as in they cant heal,cant tank or they are maybe spamming one button) and that us as players should be willing to says its fine and carry them through it even if it makes a dungeons take an hour or two instead of fifteen - twenty minutes. If you dont you are a bad player and community member. The community is really strange sometimes. Maybe some people dont have an hour,maybe they have just wanted to do a quick roulette before their team raid etc but according to some people if you queued you should be willing to stay the whole two hours without leaving. Instead of the problem person acknowledging they are struggling and maybe need more practice or need help from people who are willing to go alot slower that arent random in df. I will never agree with this as my time is my own and if I dont feel like we can beat the fight or do a simple dungeon I have the right to leave at any moment. They can replace people who leave or requeue.

At level 50+ you should know the basic of your role,at least have stuff close to your level. ( not 20. Not glam gear.) Even poetic stuff is pretty good and can last you the whole 10 levels between each set. Though stormblood dungeon and shadowbringers are a bit rougher and I’d suggest getting a bit more geared.