I am quitting FFXIV

[Kranel_San]

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I'm not 100% sure if this is true or not, but it seems to be a troll or a bait post.
As others have already noted:

Can I ask an honest question because I guess I don't understand, what issue is there with your husband's name on the account? Not judging or anything, I just don't understand the problem with it.

I'm not sure about the OP culture so stuff could be viewed differently, but I don't really see how the account name is even a problem. In fact, how did you not notice the name from the start to begin with? If you love the game so much then why can't you just continue playing it regardless of the account name?
If the account name is such a big deal to you, then I believe Duskane reply might be a great solution to you from your side.

if you are so resolved to quit and delete your account might aswell just start a new account.

If this is not a troll post, then I believe there's more to it than what the OP said.