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    Quote Originally Posted by LianaThorne View Post
    I have no idea what this has to do with taking responsibility for your kids internet habits. Just comes down to:

    - If you don't want your kid around sexual stuff then put up parental blocks.

    - If you don't want to or don't care enough to then you don't really have room to demand the internet babysit your child for you. That should be your job as a parent to establish rules in your household.
    Established rules are good but they have to respect the child as individual who also has a right to privacy which you are extremely violating with installing a keylogger like you suggested earlier. This isnt about caring or not, this is about forcing your child into a surveilance state or being there for them as person of trust and taking a healthy interest in what they are doing in their free time while also respecting boundries. If you dont respect their boundries, what makes you think they will respect the boundries of others?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Saraide View Post
    Established rules are good but they have to respect the child as individual who also has a right to privacy which you are extremely violating with installing a keylogger like you suggested earlier. This isnt about caring or not, this is about forcing your child into a surveilance state or being there for them as person of trust and taking a healthy interest in what they are doing in their free time while also respecting boundries. If you dont respect their boundries, what makes you think they will respect the boundries of others?
    When you're under the age of 18, no you don't really. You can have privacy but your parents also have the right to know what you're doing under their roof. This is probably just going to be something we disagree on, this is what I experienced by my own parents growing up and I don't fault them for it. So, that's the last I'm going to speak on this particular point as it's just going to be a brick wall argument.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LianaThorne View Post
    When you're under the age of 18, no you don't really. You can have privacy but your parents also have the right to know what you're doing under their roof. This is probably just going to be something we disagree on, this is what I experienced by my own parents growing up and I don't fault them for it. So, that's the last I'm going to speak on this particular point as it's just going to be a brick wall argument.
    I am not surprised in the slightest your parents have done this to you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Saraide View Post
    Established rules are good but they have to respect the child as individual who also has a right to privacy which you are extremely violating with installing a keylogger like you suggested earlier. This isnt about caring or not, this is about forcing your child into a surveilance state or being there for them as person of trust and taking a healthy interest in what they are doing in their free time while also respecting boundries. If you dont respect their boundries, what makes you think they will respect the boundries of others?
    This is right, children DO have a right to privacy, but that privacy doesn't need to include things like the internet. If they want privacy, they can go into their room and be in private. If they want to use the internet, it's a shared computer in a shared location.

    There is some nuance here and there's a way to handle it without putting up cameras in the child's room and having an "always open door" policy.

    Once they're in high school they can have access to a computer in their room and hopefully they understand the dangers of online predators.
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