As much as I would reply in-line to this, the order to address some requires a lot of jumping around.
I don't think 'everyone' is that way. But I don't think capitulation is the answer. However, I think *enough* people are like that to make the next statement infeasible -You don't know the situation at all if you think this is about making every healer into a dps because we all just secretly want to play dps but can't admit it.
The realistic option is just stop healing. If the healer pool were to even remotely begin to dry up because people didn't just slog through it despite being disgruntled about the situation then eventually at some point they'd have to finally reconsider their hardline stance. But enough people will never do so, because plenty of people *do* want that. I saw how many people jumped to SCH when it was introduced and the Faerie was sufficient healing for content and people rejoicing over "green DPS". That's practically where the term originated. You can ask all you want, that easily ignorable. Forcing the matter is the second choice, but you will never get it to happen because too many people are opposed to the notion.Tell me: what are our options? Realistic options, objectively speaking? We can have our pipe dreams but let's be realistic here for a moment.
Accepting more DPS actions and more DPS responsibility will feel 'good' for exactly 2 weeks before they just bump up monster HP to compensate if they give more damage or after the coat of paint rubs off when you realize you're just pressing more buttons to contribute the same amount if they keep it on-par with where it is now. It's a lose/lose situation that just sets back everything. The only thing that will ever get to where it actually feels like we are contributing is to continue to apply pressure until there's a paradigm shift.
I'm not going to even attempt to organize such a thing, because I'll just get shouted down for having the audacity to think healers should heal. I've already had enough bad experiences with this community on that topic, I'll spare myself the grief.