I can relate to this. I've adapted to the modern style as much as anyone else, and I've seen people ridiculing Sylphie a million times since ARR for wanting to only heal. Unfortunately there's not many options for people who legitimately enjoy just healing, since the game - and modern MMOs in general - are just not designed around it.
I wish that wasn't the case, but it is what it is. Clearly a lot of people enjoy the combat medic style.
Edit: Yes, I had fun spamming Cure and then resting in FFXI leveling parties. But now you whippersnappers are spoiled with your out-of-combat regen filling your HP in 5 seconds. (I'm just being playful. I realize times change).