Alright. Tried to offer you an out with a smidge of self-respect. But, I see now that I was wrong in my previous assessment that name-calling was beneath you. I guess it's right in your wheelhouse.
I don't really believe this post deserves a response, but I will attempt to provide one nonetheless. Mostly because I'm hopelessly optimistic that if people really understood me, they'd stop being rude.
1. I did make the argument against apartment. Literally on this page, a few posts above.
It went: "Well, that's not exactly true. There's having a chocobo stable, a garden, and a cheap teleport point close to one of the major cities. These have an impact upon the rest of the game. Not to mention the fact that having an impact on the rest of the game isn't a prerequisite for importance to players. I mean, aesthetics and displaying your loot and achievements are a known and popular part of playing an MMORPG. Just because it's decorative in nature, doesn't make it of lesser importance."
Earlier in this thread I mention, also, having an exterior, and I believe I also mentioned the neighborhood aspect. These are all aspects of houses that are not present in apartments (except the cheap teleport).
It's not up to me to spoonfeed you the contents of this thread. If you want to be a child, at least make sure you aren't saying someone's never made a point when they quoted you their points a few posts above.
2. It's not relevant for me to know how video games work. I don't know how computers work either, but I'm sure going to complain when I buy one that doesn't work. Keep in mind this is a complaint thread because, when I clicked "provide feedback", this is where SE directed me. There is literally no other venue to provide feedback. I don't need to be a programmer to understand my own thoughts and impressions. If you don't agree with my feedback, you're always free to just move along rather than helping me bump my thread and gaining my OP more likes.
3. Luckily, SE has come out and said many, many times (and reiterated through their actions) that they agree with me. They claim to desperately want to add more personal housing. That's not in question. SE shares my opinion. I'm not trying to convince them their system is broken. They've already come out and said as much through their reiterated apologies for not providing enough housing. I'm just trying to get them to keep making the fix a priority. While instance housing is one possible fix, it's definitely not one I or players like me are married to. Additional wards, additional subdivisions, additional districts, or even just adding a balcony or patio to apartments to benefit from the utilitarian parts of housing will do.
4. I think your point in the fourth paragraph is not entirely accurate. If SE was thinking just monetarily, they would have put houses on the online shop years ago and made money hand over fist. No, strange as it sounds, I think the housing shortage stems from their desire to do the right thing, and their desire to do the best possible thing, without acknowledging they don't have the resources to do it. I choose to take the developer at his word when he says they just can't get their hands on servers. That's just my feeling. Can't know what's going on in the developer's office.
5. I'm not against incremental changes. I don't think I claimed to be against incremental changes. And I don't think most players who agree with me are against incremental changes. But, the current rate of incremental changes is just not enough. Player base is growing exponentially faster than housing plots, which is making the situation worse, not better, despite the previous incremental changes.
I think I've responded to most of your points despite your rudeness. I hope, if you choose to continue to respond, it will be a bit more civil and a bit less impassioned.