Quote Originally Posted by EaraGrace View Post
I didn’t realize abusing your grandson wasn’t a maladaptive response to grief. The fact he couldn’t even look at Varis without being disgusted should say it all.

Or better yet let’s hear how Emet described it.



Now perhaps I’m being judgey, but I don’t think that looking at your affection for your dead son as a “momentary lapse” is facing and accepting grief.
Correct me if i’m wrong but it’s depicted that his son was the sundered’s chance of proving themselves to him. After his sons death it seemed to hit him with grief so hard he abandoned giving the sundered and chance and that’s when he fully decided to go along with the rejoining. Momentary lapse he’s referring to, to me at least seems to be the hope he had for the sundered. I don’t see that it has anything to do with grief.