Warning for "Grief" Tactics?!

[Myrany]

Reminds me of a time when I as healing.
My rule is look this is DF, I'm not over here trying to optimize (as a sch of all things anyway ; _ ; ), idc if swiftcast is up or not if someone dies they gonna get raised as soon as I can safely do so.

6/8 of our party is dead and the other healer be over there trying to grind out glare as if his life depended on it.
The moment I tell him to help raise he literally says he's waiting for swiftcast and to mind my own business.
It is literally me and him alive and he wants to wait 60s to raise someone. You could raise 6 people in less than 60s

even events like this I have to emotionally process

When I was new to the game I was a summoner. Yes I had the raise spell but I had totally forgotten I had it. Being a DPS and mostly solo player I had never really needed to use it UNTIL one day in a MSQ dungeon things went south and I had people screaming for me to raise the healer. My first thought was "I am a DPS I dont have a raise" then I remembered raised the healer and ate some humble pie for being an idiot. LOL