Warning for "Grief" Tactics?!

[Kolaina]

Ah, wanting to go through my comments to attack me elsewhere. Quite the gentleman/woman indeed. Too bad I didn't do the same childish things to get a leg up.

Quite the accusation. Assuming I’m tracking your comments for simply cycling back and forth between a couple discussions I find of interest. You just happened to respond to me in one in relatively the same moment I responded to you here

however

I do recall yesterday you accusing me of saying something I never said in another thread. Then retracting that by saying I quoted it instead. Who is going through whose posts? At this point you’re just bullying

[AbysmalDuck]

Quite the accusation. Assuming I’m tracking your comments for simply cycling back and forth between a couple discussions I find of interest. You just happened to respond to me in one in relatively the same moment I responded to you here

however

I do recall yesterday you accusing me of saying something I never said in another thread. Then retracting that by saying I quoted it instead. Who is going through whose posts? At this point you’re just bullying

Now, I've realized you are a waste of my time and will not be commenting further to you, but since you threw more accusations out there I'll at least address those. I didn't go through your comments and would submit my browser history to prove it. I looked back in the mentioned thread and saw the "Originally Posted by". You also say discussions that interest you, yet I don't specifically recall you commenting in the 15 pages or so of this thread, so nice try. Could I be wrong, perhaps, but unlike you, I'm not going through your comments to check. Also, considering it was within seconds of my comment to you in another thread proves my point.

[Padudu]

LMFAO what has this conversation even devolved into

[MilkieTea]

LMFAO what has this conversation even devolved into

Someone who really, really wants to report people for using the "Leave Duty" function.

[AbysmalDuck]

Someone who really, really wants to report people for using the "Leave Duty" function.

You are right, I do when so many of the people on this forum are so selfish and nasty. I want a cleaner game just like I hope others do too.

[MilkieTea]

You are right, I do when so many of the people on this forum are so selfish and nasty. I want a cleaner game just like I hope others do too.

Is it selfish and nasty to leave a duty when I know I won't be able to perform at my best for whatever reason? Or rather, is it the opposite, when I'd rather a group have someone who won't drag them down. I regularly leave duties when I know that, for whatever reason, I will not be able to perform at my best. Be it through sheer laziness, tiredness, chronic illness flareups, what have you.

Though, just for this, if we ever get in a group together I will be absolutely, possitively, 100% sure to not leave for whatever reason. Even if I have to take my entire PC build with me to the bathroom!!!! Since, y'know. Leaving is selfish. And I definitely don't want to be selfish!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh no!! I can even see the conversation play out now!!!!!

Me: "GTG, stomach stuff srry."
Me: "Oh wait, it's selfish and nasty to leave!!!"
ME: "Give me 30 minutes, I have to unplug my PC and plug it in to the bathroom RQ, just wait right here :P"

All of this because I corrected people on the tos lmao

People as reactionary as them absolutely hate getting corrected, and will absolutely 100% die on some really, really weird hills.

[AbysmalDuck]

Is it selfish and nasty to leave a duty when I know I won't be able to perform at my best for whatever reason? Or rather, is it the opposite, when I'd rather a group have someone who won't drag them down. I regularly leave duties when I know that, for whatever reason, I will not be able to perform at my best. Be it through sheer laziness, tiredness, chronic illness flareups, what have you.

Though, just for this, if we ever get in a group together I will be absolutely, possitively, 100% sure to not leave for whatever reason. Even if I have to take my entire PC build with me to the bathroom!!!! Since, y'know. Leaving is selfish.



People as reactionary as them absolutely hate getting corrected, and will absolutely 100% die on some really, really weird hills.

Leaving is selfish, when you don't explain the purpose of leaving and just up and leave. Most people, would be kind enough to wait. I would. I've only cared when people say "one sec" and then are gone for 5 minutes. Then I proceed to vote kick, because they weren't honest or didn't care enough to give us a realistic estimate of how long we should wait. If someone said, "one sec, I need to run to the restroom" or some variation of that to let us know something is up, then I'm cool with it.

Also, if you know you can't perform, then you perhaps shouldn't be joining. Obviously, you are throwing that out there to be vague and cast a large net of people that may have legitimate reasons for not being able to perform such as disabilities to make your argument stronger. I've had people join and say they had a disability. They made it through half the dungeon or it was so long ago that I don't remember if anything was said or whatever, but they just left. I had no reason to be upset. They were forth coming and for whatever reason felt they couldn't continue. That isn't reportable, but leaving because single pulls or whatever you are annoyed about from your other party members, is selfish.

[SieyaM]

Is it selfish and nasty to leave a duty when I know I won't be able to perform at my best for whatever reason? Or rather, is it the opposite, when I'd rather a group have someone who won't drag them down. I regularly leave duties when I know that, for whatever reason, I will not be able to perform at my best. Be it through sheer laziness, tiredness, chronic illness flareups, what have you.

Though, just for this, if we ever get in a group together I will be absolutely, possitively, 100% sure to not leave for whatever reason. Even if I have to take my entire PC build with me to the bathroom!!!! Since, y'know. Leaving is selfish. And I definitely don't want to be selfish!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh no!! I can even see the conversation play out now!!!!!

Me: "GTG, stomach stuff srry."
Me: "Oh wait, it's selfish and nasty to leave!!!"
ME: "Give me 30 minutes, I have to unplug my PC and plug it in to the bathroom RQ, just wait right here :P"



People as reactionary as them absolutely hate getting corrected, and will absolutely 100% die on some really, really weird hills.

Well, the other side is that when you leave without any communication whatsoever then you leave it up to the remaining players to infer why you left. That means they can absolutely believe you left because you were running a parser and decided the group was not performing to whatever arbitrary standards you might have set, or you found their glamour ugly and left in disgust.

[Rokke]

LMFAO what has this conversation even devolved into

All of this because I corrected people on the tos lmao

[Padudu]

All of this because I corrected people on the tos lmao

You and the OP should receive a kudos from the forum mods for raising community engagement!