Curly hair that is parted, brushed and untied is "messy". Ok.

Mentioning your ethnicity in a thread about HAIR STYLES is obnoxious and not relevant at all. Ok.

It's funny. I never see any criticism towards guys who mention "I like playing male characters because I'm a guy." Everyone immediately understands the concept of wanting to relate to your character in a role playing game. Weird, huh?