"Everyone's so open and friendly" is a lie

[FusiaRain]

Sorry, but did you just tell me that verbally harassing other players is, "the joy of gaming"?

The idea that people should be able to harass others because they "could be stressing over real life bs using the game as an escape" as if the people you're out there verbally harassing could not possibly be doing the same thing. Not. An. Excuse.

Drone like behavior? Everyone the same? What are you talking about? None of what you're saying even makes sense.

You're not special and unique because you cuss people out on the internet. What are you even talking about? Sports? What?

No i didnt i was saying being different having differnce from different unquie ppl to be around is the joy.

Stop twisting what is said.

I dont sware at people normally but if im under pressure with situations or something it may slip.

All I'm saying is we neee to understand people slip when frustrated and stressed and yell,sware or say things they dont mean out of anger not on purpose.

Things/situations are not black and white. People havebad days, slip ot of frustration or overwhelm emotions.
There is a difference in someone trashy doing it 24/7 and a time to time slip up.

[Izscha]

No i didnt i was saying being different having differnce from different unquie ppl to be around is the joy.

Stop twisting what is said.

I dont sware at people normally but if im under pressure with situations or something it may slip.

All I'm saying is we neee to understand people slip when frustrated and stressed and yell,sware or say things they dont mean out of anger not on purpose

Shhhh you must put up with everyone's bs all the time, they can run down die 10 times never do any mecanics right / waste your time talking for nonsense all the time you have no right to ever call this out or cuss at anyone.
You got better dps than both ur DPS as a tank ? Have fun dude they're enjoying the game and make your experience as great as possible and you can't say anything about it.

Sarcasm aside, if you start to listen to ppl here everyone is depressed antisocial stressed and triggered by everything you can say and that's normal to put up with terrible ppl both skillwise or attitude because you must be friendly at all cost no matter how bad and lazy they are, so yay best community ever yay.

[LittleImp]

Sarcasm aside, if you start to listen to ppl here everyone is depressed antisocial stressed and triggered by everything you can say and that's normal to put up with terrible ppl both skillwise or attitude because you must be friendly at all cost no matter how bad and lazy they are, so yay best community ever yay.

Honestly, this has been my experience with most people who set and project high standards around the way others interact or speak. They virtually never hold themselves to their own moral standards, and play 'get out of jail free' cards like using shoddy moral justifications or 'mental illness' any time they're caught out being abusive. Of course, the moment someone else tries to use the same excuse, it suddenly isn't valid anymore. "Rules for thee but not for me". A lot of the time, their moral standards are less about truly being a good person, and more about giving themselves tools to undermine people they happen not to like for other, significantly less justifiable reasons.

[Drkdays]

Shhhh you must put up with everyone's bs all the time, they can run down die 10 times never do any mecanics right / waste your time talking for nonsense all the time you have no right to ever call this out or cuss at anyone.
You got better dps than both ur DPS as a tank ? Have fun dude they're enjoying the game and make your experience as great as possible and you can't say anything about it.

Sarcasm aside, if you start to listen to ppl here everyone is depressed antisocial stressed and triggered by everything you can say and that's normal to put up with terrible ppl both skillwise or attitude because you must be friendly at all cost no matter how bad and lazy they are, so yay best community ever yay.

Most people AREN'T bad at the game though, and those who do struggle rarely do content that requires high-level playing anyways. So most of the people that get called out are either not doing anything worth being tormented over or those who do are probably still learning and too nervous to ask for help. Then you have your trolls, but they're surprisingly rare in group content in this game and are usually pretty obvious.

So yes, you MUST put up with players that die repeatedly or fail to do mechanics, because they are a minority and you are an adult (probably) and this game supports players at all levels and ages.

Or you can leave the group and find a new one without being verbally abusive, cause that's an option.

[Izscha]

Most people AREN'T bad at the game though

We dont play the same game then.
What's the name of the game you do play i'm curious ?

[Exosapien]

We dont play the same game then.
What's the name of the game you do play i'm curious ?

There are definitely people bad at the game quite regularly. That being said, I'd rather play with people that are dog water at the game than people who would be upset over it. And, no, I'm not talking about content that people would generally have a static for and even then in those situations if someone is bad I'd rather play with people that would help and enjoy helping others learn things than the people who act like being bad at a video game is some kind of irredeemable sin that should be punishable by firing squad.

[Exosapien]

No i didnt i was saying being different having differnce from different unquie ppl to be around is the joy.

Stop twisting what is said.

I dont sware at people normally but if im under pressure with situations or something it may slip.

All I'm saying is we neee to understand people slip when frustrated and stressed and yell,sware or say things they dont mean out of anger not on purpose

I'm not twisting what you said at all. We're talking about people flipping out and cussing out strangers because they don't like what they did in a video game.

No one was talking about "being different" from each other.

"we neee to understand people slip when frustrated." It really depends on the situation, and being understanding of that is different than just sitting back and letting people verbally harass us.

Dropping a no-no word once in a while is different than flipping out and harassing other people for making mistakes in video games.

[FusiaRain]

I'm not twisting what you said at all. We're talking about people flipping out and cussing out strangers because they don't like what they did in a video game.

No one was talking about "being different" from each other.

"we neee to understand people slip when frustrated." It really depends on the situation, and being understanding of that is different than just sitting back and letting people verbally harass us.

Dropping a no-no word once in a while is different than flipping out and harassing other people for making mistakes in video games.

Okay sorry I wasn't clear what I meant. I would be more clear but it would get personal.

I will short clear it though, last week somone stole a computer part I order from my front door that was delivered I was really angry about that so I boot up only to get Yelled at in the first alliance raid of the day and Ilmost I said was hello because I had to get up for one minute to grab a pain killer. I almost slipped saying something I didn't mean. Dumb luck that my cat knocked something over that I had to pick up or I would have said it.

Again sorry I assumed.