Personally, I prefer if someone cusses me out as opposed to being passive aggressive. In my experience Irl, usually after they say what they need to say to the person they don't like, they can atleast be civil with them. I know I've been like that a few times. That's preferable to thinking you're cool with someone only to find out that, No, you in fact are not cool, and they hate you to quite an extreme degree. Which is also something I'm quite familiar with. xD

Idk, some people take things too seriously, some people don't take things serious enough, and some people just have no clue. I've gotten called some horrible shit and just been like, yea, ok. People take things too personally imo.