Page 5 of 13 FirstFirst ... 3 4 5 6 7 ... LastLast
Results 41 to 50 of 121
  1. #41
    Player
    Misutoraru's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Posts
    947
    Character
    Misutoraru Valkyrie
    World
    Cerberus
    Main Class
    Astrologian Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Shironeko_Narunyan View Post
    When someone else does this, they only represent themselves.
    When a mentor does it, they throw a shade on all mentors.

    The problem is that they wore their Burger King crown.
    I literally took off my Mentor status back in Stormblood after seeing many mentor just jump ship when they got a fight they dont like.

    I do enjoy teaching and being there when we finally overcome the hard fight. It is a sense of achievement, also try to farm some progress for the mount
    There are times I do not feel like spending ages to help to teach, and I dont queue for the mentor roulette

    It is like having a FC on the name, it is a representative.

    Way too easy to become a mentor, even anyone have never intend to provide any coaching
    (1)

  2. #42
    Player

    Join Date
    Jul 2017
    Posts
    3,327
    Quote Originally Posted by nebby00 View Post
    We do accept the reality that there will be good and bad mentors. All it takes is just reporting the bad ones with their behavior, and making sure that it message comes across that the bad behavior isn't supposed to be tolerated. I don't spend much more than a few seconds over bad mentors, laugh and hit report and move on with my day. But it doesn't excuse the fact once you apply for mentorship you are a mentor; therefore you get put in the spotlight when that little mentor icon is next to your name. Don't want to be put to a higher standard? Don't apply for mentorship.
    By all means report them, but way I see it GM’s hardly enforce their standards on mentors so I really cannot blame people if they ignore the rules. Rules / standards without enforcement are pointless. It legitimately is a pointless role / system people really get too caught up with the ideal of the mentor in my opinion.

    That is why I have always been a fan of the idea of turning the crown in a bag of shit, cause honestly that is what the entire system is, a bag of shit.

    Quote Originally Posted by Misutoraru View Post
    Take the 30min penalty
    or
    do not join mentor roulette if you are not up for the task that throw at you
    Why take the timer if one could just pretend to DC and wait to be removed? Not like a GM will be able to prove you did not really DC?
    (3)
    Last edited by Awha; 09-27-2021 at 03:55 AM.

  3. #43
    Player
    nebby00's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2021
    Location
    Lurking in the forums... probably
    Posts
    262
    Character
    Thracie Treebow
    World
    Midgardsormr
    Main Class
    Pictomancer Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Awha View Post
    By all means report them, but way I see it GM’s hardly enforce their standards on mentors so I really cannot blame people if they ignore the rules. Rules / standards without enforcement are pointless.
    True, I do wish that GM's did moderate the NN and mentors with their behavior. The situation has only gotten worse with more mentors only going through the system for the mount alone. And if people feel like they can get away with bad behavior, 99% of the time they'll do it. It's kind of a bit saddening that it needs moderation... but really you can't trust people to actually put themselves to a certain standard without being watched.

    Quote Originally Posted by Awha View Post
    That is why I have always been a fan of the idea of turning the crown in a bag of shit, cause honestly that is what the entire system is, a bag of shit.
    Pfft! This actually made me laugh a bit, thanks for that XD
    (2)
    The person who doesn't have a main class or character.

  4. #44
    Player
    Deceptus's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2013
    Location
    The Goblet - 16th Ward, Plot 55
    Posts
    4,418
    Character
    Deceptus Keelon
    World
    Behemoth
    Main Class
    Sage Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by DrWho2010 View Post
    yeah i've seen this during my mentor runs and during msq roulettes where they didn't get Praetorium. disconnect and hope to get kicked instead of eating the 30 min penalty.

    if you feel like reporting them you can do so.
    Except unless they explicitly said what they were disconnecting on purpose you can't prove they are.

    You have zero idea what their ISP is like or their connection.
    (1)
    Veteran healers don't care if we need to heal, but right now we don't. We want interesting things to do during the downtime other than a 30s dot and a single filler spell that hasn't changed from lvl 4 to lvl 90.
    Dead DPS do no DPS. Raised DPS do 25/50% lower DPS. Do the mechanics and don't stand in bad stuff.
    Other games expect basic competence, FFXIV is pleasantly surprised by it. Other games have toxic elitism. FFXIV has toxic casualism.[/LIST]

  5. #45
    Player
    Snorky's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2014
    Posts
    655
    Character
    Akiimi Akagane
    World
    Excalibur
    Main Class
    Arcanist Lv 90
    I am in favor of getting rid of mentor system only if they remove the rewards from doing roulette and retroactively remove people earned mounts, or they give everyone mounts that could be earned from the roulette system. Otherwise leave the mentor system alone if you don't like it don't become a mentor. Of they are rude or dcing a lot report them. A pattern will emerge for this person.
    (1)
    Enjoy Life you only get one.

  6. #46
    Player
    Katie_Kitty's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2018
    Posts
    952
    Character
    Princess Whiskers
    World
    Exodus
    Main Class
    Red Mage Lv 100
    They're not your slave, they are a human being playing a game in their free time. Deal with it.
    (7)

  7. #47
    Player Caurcas's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2020
    Posts
    1,527
    Character
    Caur Kagon
    World
    Siren
    Main Class
    Dark Knight Lv 90
    Give me a global chat and I might ditch the crown. Until then, I am the burger king. Deal with it.
    (1)

  8. #48
    Player
    Krojack's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Posts
    772
    Character
    Avellin Adorel
    World
    Excalibur
    Main Class
    Conjurer Lv 100
    Here is my take on this.

    Yes, people like the one OP talks about are bad players but there is really no way to fix this other than remove trial EX fights from the Mentor roulette.

    I enjoy trying to help people when I do some mentor roulettes however I start to lose that feeling when people just flat out won't listen. I can't even tell you how many EX fights I've been in where the new sprout tank just instantly pulls the boss while I or someone else is trying to explain things. That's just one of several examples.

    I got The Striking Tree (Extreme) once as a tank. My tank partner just wouldn't listen. They just went in tanking and wouldn't pick up orbs and tank swap. Just instantly die every single time. I tried explaining what they need to do but they acted as if chat was just turned off.

    I start losing hope and don't want to help people. This happens more often than not.

    On another note, I'm getting frustrated with how people see mentors. I don't even turn my little gold crown on anymore because it's a laughing stock. Just the other day I got "The World of Darkness" as my mentor. I jokingly said "wow, I got this for mentor roulette? Ok who needs help?" and instantly someone was replied "weird flex".
    (5)

  9. #49
    Player
    SturmChurro's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2017
    Location
    Gridania
    Posts
    7,073
    Character
    Sturm Churro
    World
    Marilith
    Main Class
    White Mage Lv 100
    I'm sure many "mentors" would love it if they removed ex fights, as then they could just coast through the "mentor" roulette on their way towards the mount. A much higher chance for guildhests too!

    I for one am glad that the mentor crown is being seen less and less as a status symbol. It means less and less people will want to become a mentor just for the icon, however the mount reward still remains. Unfortunately, even if they removed the mount it wouldn't fix the issue(s) plaguing NN, but that's for another thread.
    (4)
    Last edited by SturmChurro; 09-28-2021 at 03:28 AM.
    WHM | RDM | DNC

  10. #50
    Player
    Misutoraru's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2013
    Posts
    947
    Character
    Misutoraru Valkyrie
    World
    Cerberus
    Main Class
    Astrologian Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Snorky View Post
    I am in favor of getting rid of mentor system only if they remove the rewards from doing roulette and retroactively remove people earned mounts, or they give everyone mounts that could be earned from the roulette system. Otherwise leave the mentor system alone if you don't like it don't become a mentor. Of they are rude or dcing a lot report them. A pattern will emerge for this person.
    Remove it +1
    the Mentor crown like a police or firefighter badge represent certain virtues
    now it become a world wide chat room always turn into political
    and many Mentors just want to farm mounts and many spouts refuse to be taught
    (3)

Page 5 of 13 FirstFirst ... 3 4 5 6 7 ... LastLast