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    Quote Originally Posted by Snorky View Post
    Wow just wow, the lengths you are going to just to abstain from any responsibility as an adult. People with this attitude ARE the problem here oh well they say, it's just a game doesn't matter if it's a person behind that character. This is exactly what abusers do to their victims, deflect, oh you made me do it, you made me say it, you made me be angry so I couldn't control myself you made me get aroused because you wore a bikini, you made me want to hurt you because I have needs too! That is how disgusting this thread is. The victim blame is real, you actually expect a 9 year old to know their mind or a 13 year old. There is a reason they are not adults at that age. Just stop! This is disgusting. What does a nine year old in a game in a dungeon killing npcs with to do with the erp community not policing themselves? If you are into it and a adult I could give two sheets but if you don't care that you maybe abusing a minor well I have no use for you and you're a sorry excu itse for a human. Stop projecting the responsibility onto a child. This game and it's contents that the developer made are for teens not adults who can't stop touching themselves. Pleeeessse. Give me a break. Victim blame it makes you look ugly.
    It is a joint effort the parents are also at fault. Parents need to stop blaming others for their poor parenting. Teach your kid that's the lying has consequences some of which they cannot easily walk back from. Life is full of danger and authority figures can only do so much to protect you that includes parents. They need to teach kids that this world is dangerous and how they act and dress can have potential consequences and if they are uncomfortable with those consequences then do not wear or do x.

    It is that simple too many people think oh horrible person did x it is all their fault but if you ask them what did they do to minimize the risk factors they often tell ya nothing. That is the problem and as another person shown it is a byproduct of being privileged. From an early age my parents told me the world can be a cruel place and the only person that will ever always be 100% on your side and be around all the time to protect you is yourself.

    It is not victim blaming to point out that the victim could have protected themselves better.

    The real world is not a daycare center it is not designed to protect everyone from everything we need to make up the difference. This reminds me of my neighbor during covid his packages were stolen and when I suggested he should get a camera system, his reply was why? People should not steal that is why we have laws etc . . . but if they had just put a camera they could have maybe made it easier for the proper authorities to do their job.

    In short protecting yourself also makes it easier for the laws and rules to work more efficiently.
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