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    Quote Originally Posted by MiaShino View Post
    I will stick with interacting with my family and friends because every stinking time I try to interact with the general public I am reminded of just how insane everyone is.
    1) If every interaction with the public goes sour for you, the most common denominator is you/your behavior. Maybe reflect on how you are interacting or the manner/places you choose to interact.

    2) The excessive language doesn’t help. While using bad language in of itself isn’t bad, using it excessively shows a lack of composure or a lack of maturity which rarely works in your favor. In my office we call this “final protective fire”, as in you simply have nothing else to add to the conversation.

    3)As you said, being underage and looking underage is different. If this is such a problem in your life, consider looking into fashion choices or how you act to better reflect your age. Japanese like my wife look much younger than they are, but you would never mistake her for a child with her sharp fashion/hair.

    4) I f you make mistakes, admit to them quickly and with grace.

    5)My final and probably most useful bit of advice: When you have finished typing out your responses on forums, look over it and ask “does this add anything useful or constructive to the conversation?” If not, delete and move on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MiaShino View Post
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    There's no need to quit because one guy upset you. I suggest editing your post to tone it down a bit, then not coming back to the thread to avoid further upset.
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    Player Rinhi's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by MiaShino View Post
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    I'll miss your posts and hope you reconsider that decision
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    MiaShino's Avatar
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    Mia Shino
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rinhi View Post
    I'll miss your posts and hope you reconsider that decision
    Many thanks kind one! I may occasionally still beyond this one, we shall seeeee.

    This one will be shorter then the usual giant Mia walls of words and letters though. Well.. minus having to quote, that makes the post fricken huuuge! Oh who am I kidding no it will not.. I enjoy writing!

    Quote Originally Posted by kaynide View Post
    1) If every interaction with the public goes sour for you, the most common denominator is you/your behavior. Maybe reflect on how you are interacting or the manner/places you choose to interact.
    I see this said in places much and there is much I could say in response but shall keep brief. I have done that and made my decision on the matter. I understand sentiment of the statement.

    Quote Originally Posted by kaynide View Post
    2) The excessive language doesn’t help. While using bad language in of itself isn’t bad, using it excessively shows a lack of composure or a lack of maturity which rarely works in your favor. In my office we call this “final protective fire”, as in you simply have nothing else to add to the conversation.

    Correct. There are not many things I can add when I am insulted or called racist. It tends to make one feisty which welp, results in the lack of composure. Also, I know plenty of mature people who use excessive bad language. That is.. you know what nope nope.

    Quote Originally Posted by kaynide View Post
    3)As you said, being underage and looking underage is different. If this is such a problem in your life, consider looking into fashion choices or how you act to better reflect your age. Japanese like my wife look much younger than they are, but you would never mistake her for a child with her sharp fashion/hair.
    No. I will not alter how I behave or act simply because there are ones out there who cannot move beyond preconceived notions of appearance and behavior. Me acting silly or dressing less "mature" hurts no one. Forcing me to change my hair, clothes, and personality does hurt me. Hard pass! Will also not get into medical conditions and growth hormones because lack the necessary knowledge and it is personal.

    Quote Originally Posted by kaynide View Post
    4) I f you make mistakes, admit to them quickly and with grace.
    I am uncertain what this has to do with my posts? It is fairly obvious thing to do but I will not bend the knee for getting upset. I may have misinterpreted though and do this lots with English!

    Quote Originally Posted by kaynide View Post
    5)My final and probably most useful bit of advice: When you have finished typing out your responses on forums, look over it and ask “does this add anything useful or constructive to the conversation?” If not, delete and move on.
    This is unnecessary.
    First definition of forum found on the google; a place, meeting, or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged.

    I believe I have filled the aforementioned criteria to the best ability.

    Quote Originally Posted by JTF-Taru View Post
    There's no need to quit because one guy upset you. I suggest editing your post to tone it down a bit, then not coming back to the thread to avoid further upset.
    Many thanks to you as swell! This will be my final post in this thread, well possibly.. I have issue but I will not alter the post as it feels kinda disingenuous to do this. I became mad and said it and that is that, if others think less of me it would not be first and will not be final time either.

    Quote Originally Posted by Raasu View Post
    Wanted to quickly respond to this part because it's getting really tiring how lately some people on this forum are trying to force some weird internet culture clash between westerners and the Japanese.
    Saying ugh westerners really ruffled the jimmies as I have heard my uncle say. I have issue with Western ideology for reasons this here thread did little to abate. You can belong to any culture but still parrot western morals and I will still find it mildly irritating, which as sentient being I am entitled to do. I have no fricken clue how this evolved to "forcing a clash between Japanese and others" there are plenty of JP who do not like western way of thinking. Culture clash is common thing in a world with so many.

    I will answer your question though! Many apologies for insulting you, this topic brings great feist.

    No, I do not care what people do with Lalafell because Lala's are not children. I do not see them or think they look like children because this is not how I think. I think short race with pointy ears like dwarf or gnome, goblin or fay. It was somewhat startling for me when it became issue actually. This is a sentiment the writing staff agrees with so I assumed (wrongfully, I can be naïve) it would not be problem.

    Is the word crux? Yes yes I believe crux, the crux of my post was a reaction to being insulted for saying "ugh westerners" I assume? The person kinda just exploded violently. I was then told "I am ashamed to share same race as you" by.. someone who called me racist.. ohhhh the irony. Then my partner was insulted for finding me attractive despite a medical condition I have no control over.

    Ohhhh right! I was beyond even this tangentially suggested I may be the big P word but could have misinterpreted. The umm, whole English thing.. Or that I overlook bad things that occur to real children. It should be "obvious" how I view my 34 year old Lalafell Warrior Of Light.

    Speaking of her! She was born an Ul'Dah Lalafell with quite high affinity for magic. Naturally this drew her to the Thaumaturge guild. She found fitting in here most difficult as this one possessed low desire to wield destructive magic's, favoring healing and protection barriers. Her journey took her away from Ul'Dah to Gridania the home of the conjurers guild!

    She would vanquish powerful foes and make friends along the way. A most unusual consortium of individuals! A long tall and handsome Elezen man lifted her spirits many a time for whom she developed feelings for. We all know how that ends.. but alas! There would be many many more friends and potential partners in her future!

    Though she lost many friends she gained many more and her story is not yet over! She will go on to refine the use of white magic and perhaps one day she can bring back those she has lost just as Emit wished too.

    So no. No oh silly ones in this thread, I never once viewed my Warrior of Light as a five year old child and no I never will. If you cannot accept this then I have only disdain for you and I feel kinda bad for you too! Try to look beyond it is message woven into the story of the game we are all playing, no?
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    Player Jadedsins's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by HollowedDoll View Post
    I wonder how that works, making alcoholics look at pictures of someone doing shots, or a bottle of jack daniels is gonna help them somehow?
    Well clearly we are not smart enough to understand, since not all conditions are the same.
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    Player Jadedsins's Avatar
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    No? Sorry but we consider it the same thing for the longest time. I never once said they are the same. I said they are being treated the same. LGBTQ community should know how it feels to not be wired the same. I also said that same community has been reaching out to help these people.


    When you can't use logic and reason, you all assume that people are saying the same.


    How long ago was it that being gay was consider a disorder? How they was treated even if they did not act out on it? Just because it is more normal now, does not mean that history is gone.



    My point is this, This is very much wrong, but I'm not going to hate on someone who is wired to feel that way. I will only judge them if they act on it and make victims. LGBTQ community should just stop being gay is what I got from this community. it is the same logic pedos must hear huh?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Axxion View Post
    well damn that was toll post after all. that was massive bait then
    It actually wasn't a troll post. This thread was 100% serious. Not my fault it got turned into what it became. I thought it was just about suppose to be about nsfw mods, people turned it into erp and pedo's and thinking of the children.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Plushy View Post
    As I said. Living in your head rent free <3 coming back to reply just for me!

    Volountary? You mean voluntary?
    Seems like you need a voluntary trip back to the 5th grade! so you can learn how to spell!
    You kind of suck as a troll. Alt to stir, grammar arguments when You cant think of anything real, and You use those actions these days? What are You, 2015 steam forums wannabe troll?
    You should be called Titanman2: broken ego edition, becouse that what seems to happend in this thread. Enjoy Your level 70 alt account to spam forums.
    Your previous account where some apes called You "Religious zealot" was much better. (I hope its You, to at least give You some credit.)
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    Last edited by Lenivy; 09-12-2021 at 08:39 PM.

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    Player Wavaryen's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by raelgun View Post
    You know Intent is depicted in law right? The Law does not care about what you depict is real or not, we do not care about what you depict is real or not, Intent is a behavioural problem.
    Sure, but intent to what? Does that art have rights? What is the intent? You getting off on something that is not real? Porn has incest actors all the time. Does that mean that it is breaking the law? Why would you watch it unless your intent was incest is what you saying?
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    Last edited by Wavaryen; 09-14-2021 at 05:14 AM.

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