Quote Originally Posted by xxmiamorecadenza View Post
If having personal boundaries makes me 'soft' or 'uptight' then I'll happily be viewed as such.

I've dealt with being called 'soft' and 'uptight' in the military because I didn't tolerate jokes made at my expense as a black woman.

So I'll keep on keeping on.
"Black women" eh I willing to bet it had less to do with that and more so had to do with the personality. Just the "black women" was the attribute they choose to make jokes about.