It took some time, heck, I even helped with an Odin Ex and I think a Shiva Ex clear which both went surprisingly well, but ultimately the Thordan Ex I spoke of earlier in this thread broke me and I haven't touched the roulette since, even though I had access to it for awhile after. It's a two way street. Sure, we are there to help, but players also need to want it for things to work. Personally, I abandoned that roulette and never looked back. I can help out in other ways without losing my sanity. If there's questions in NN that need answering, I will. If someone in a dungeon or raid asks for tips, I will give them some tips provided someone hasn't beaten me to the punch already. I will also help clear various things through the PF. None of these things feel like I'm wasting my time, unlike the Mentor Roulette, and it is hopefully doing some good. That is what I signed up for, not queueing for some random roulette. Regardless, they have to ask for it, because as I said...they have to want it. I will not be bending over backwards for lost causes since I value my time and I respect the time of those around me. They don't deserve such treatment either. I'm certainly not wearing my crown anymore though, since that thing has gotten me nothing but trouble. No matter how politely I gave advice, I was basically seen as the "lolmentor". The only place it is visible is in the NN.