Quote Originally Posted by StormyFae View Post
I love the community, but at the same time I'm scared to say much of anything around alot of people, This is due to how people label things which with how I am, I'm an emotional type of person, I basically wear my heart on my sleeve i say what I mean, I state my opinions and play in my own style ... the problem with Community's (not just ffxiv)

Is you have an Opinion, you state it.. you have suggestion you state it and try to open up a calm discussion and then you have people who on purpose try to set you off and end the discussion or thought for w/e nonsense reason they have, Just because a thought/suggestion is dark/outside the box are something extremely different doesn't mean a person is "trolling" or whatever else nonsense you want to put it, all it means is a person wants something different from the game.

Which this is a huge proplem, in my eyes because the devs /mods and in fact other players expect a person to not be a robot when people sit there and poke you with a stick over and over and over and over again then the second you let out a little of your realistic irritation your screwed... Its almost like if you walk into a donut shop and want to order a muffin which they sell and then everyone stands up starts b-rating you but the second you snap your the wrong one. That's literally how talking about anything is with most community's


so in alot of ways, i have to agree with how you feel OP.. and I know 1-3 people from this will attack me over this lol
Thank you I want to see about deleting this thread or possibly deleting my account on the forums. I am thinking about just playing solo and staying away from most players since if you give any sort of criticism they hound you out. The game isn't perfect at all and there is alot of things that could be fixed but as soon as you say something they attack you. DR, BSF isn't perfect at all. They act like people have tons of gil to buy the fragments or can sit and grind for essences knowing that it is random what you get, it be nice if you could choose but that isn't the case. I regret posting anything and it lets me see what kind of community we truly have. Every one on youtube put on rainbow sugar coated glasses but in the end the community isn't as upbeat as people say