Final Fantasy XIV and a Culture of Enabling

[Vinupra-Rosa]

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Why yes, I do hold in severe judgement players who: 1) complain about 'bad players' and 2) do not wish to help others improve

If you dislike 'bad players' so much you would like to complain about them, then you might as well do something about it by helping people improve. That would result in, over time, less 'bad players'. If you complain about bad players, do not offer help, but instead insult them elsewhere or remove them for causing you inconvenience then you are toxic, plain and simple.

you must be getting very lucky that the people you give tips to are that receptive to them

My mostly positive experiences with aiding might have to do with luck, or it might be selective memory (I had seen people who ignore / rebuff advice), but for the most part just speak nicely and chances are someone's going to listen.

more like tired individuals

OP sounds like your factory-standard elitist no matter how hard they try to 'seem humble' or say 'my expectations are not THAT high'. Some of the others sound like they don't know how to say things nicely / think it's oppressive to 'have to say' things nicely and wonder why people don't take their advice well. Others do sound like they do mean well but have seen one too many 'you don't pay my sub' people. The last group I sympathise with --- the former two, not so much.