A response, thank you!

people could admit their problems instead of using excuses and vague statements like "Oh i am just having fun, no need to analyze anything please, no need to go indepth about it, its just vague fun, doesnt matter if it is wrong, undeserving or even unjust, just let me have """"fun"""""
This confuse me a lot because this is the very argument people you defend use (maybe not in this very thread). I'll need more explanation here. And before asking people to admit their problems, you should begin by yourself.

why do you think the vast number of people prefer pugs
And you base this claim on...? Because, from my point of view, people prefer static.

be a nightmare for elitists since their ego depends on the delusion that they achieved something l33t epic by beating high end content and having those dirty casual solo players achieve the same will directly hurt the only thing their self worth depends on.
This is a well-known none-argument called the straw man argument (you'll find more information here https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man). You're the one putting stereotype on people and then harassing them based on those.

And here we see your complete inability [...] and obnoxious which is something kinda bad.
Don't try to make you look like the white knight defending the defenceless, because you're doing them more arm with this attitude than by just saying nothing. You're the one cleaving the community and then using this cleave to start a war, thus negatively affecting everyone.

Elitist tryhards are a very well known and documented problems in many games
At least we agree on that point. But, on the other end of the spectrum, there are people like you who try to justify the absolute opposite. Which is as bad as the original problem. Maybe showing you what you look like will help you understand the reaction/response you get. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eh2d...vaLaDirtLeague

To conclude my response I would say: Yes toxic elitist player actively harassing underperforming player do exist but they are a minority. Responding to them as you do, is, in my opinion the worst possible reaction. Even making it worst by polarizing people even more. I don't know if you really mean everything you write here and there or you just cornered yourself in a bad position and, for the sake of pride, you polarized yourself to become the very thing you tried to fight. But as you said, it's ok to admit its failure.

And to go a little back on topic, people await fairness. On one side you have: (1) Find a group (pf, static or whatever). (2) Learn the fight. (3) find a strategy to beat it (often comes from guide now) (4) 8 people do the fight correctly. And on the other side, you have (1) learn the fight. (2) 1 person do the fight correctly. As you can see, the first option is more demanding than the other, thus leading to less reward. And as I already said, no reward in this case, in my point of view.