Unfortunately for you, the *majority* here is players enjoy to go fast in dungeons. Everyone has done them over hundreds of times and just want to get it over with.

They do have this feature where you can freely leisure in a dungeon; already forget what it's called but it's there for you to take in sights and stuff.

As for doing actual content with folks, if you really don't feel like rushing, then perhaps instead of DF, you can instead try making a PF and see how that turns out for you?